What’s In A Name?

Nine years ago a chinese friend of mine sought to embrace Islam when she was in the United States. Among the questions she asked the scholar was the need for her to rename her father as Abdullah (Subject of God) as being practised in Malaysia. The scholar said no where does it say that she needs to change her father’s name.

This topic is in response to the current dilemma that came about after the Mufti of Perlis, in the state of Perlis’s Fatwa Meeting, deemed the act of renaming one’s father upon embracing Islam as “sinful”.

Yes, sinful.

Those opposed are crying foul citing examples like: Ahmad bin Pope, or Ali bin Subramaniam and so on, saying those names are unIslamic.

I am a proponent of the call by the Mufti of Perlis. The opponents should realise that one of the reasons non-Muslim families shudder at the thought of any of their members embracing Islam is the need to change the father’s name to Abdullah: psychologically side-lining the father and the family. What they should also realise is that it is the embracee’s name that needs to be changed to something nicer should his non-Muslim name sound or mean bad things: ie. KULOP, BATANG, TOILET and so on. The embracee is still his/her father’s child. Therefore it would be very unjust to deny the father of the embracee his claim over his own child. I believe the changing of the father’s name to Abdullah psychologically severes the tie that binds them as father and child.

May I quote from my source, the Holy Quran, which is my A1 source of information on Islam, as I do not hold the words of scholars to be true and just, from Surah al-Azhab (The Confederates) 33:5:

Call them (adopted sons) by (the names of) their fathers, that is more just with Allâh. But if you know not their father’s (names, call them) your brothers in faith and Mawâlîkum (your freed slaves). And there is no sin on you if you make a mistake therein, except in regard to what your hearts deliberately intend. And Allâh is Ever Oft­Forgiving, Most Merciful.

Take A Leak

Today, the Exco for Religious Affairs of Selangor announced the existence of another deviationist cult preying on people who want to cleanse their sins and perform Haj but do not have enough money to do so. He mentioned that the Selangor Religious Affairs Committee has enough evidence and is waiting for the right tie to nab these people. When asked of the name of the individuals and the name of the deviationist cult, he refused to give them out for fear they might lie low and escape arrest.

Who on earth voted in this stupid person to become exco?

1) If you have enough evidence, arrest them.
2) The public is not interested to know what you know, but what have you done about it.
3) If you fear the deviationists escaping, why mention about their modus operandi in the first place? Now not only them will lie low.but all other deviationists that may have the same modus operandi.
4) Voters who chose this idiot to become their representative did the right thing: stupid people voting in another stupid to represent them.

How much more stupid can you get?

Classical leak of info.

Perhentian 2007 – Part 3

At the Sugar Wreck

Finally it happened. I drove the Naza Ria, picked up Derrick at the Bandar Tasik Selatan KTM Komuter station, Azlan at the Flamingo Hotel and made our way onto the Karak Highway, and then through the towns of Bentong, Raub, Benta, Kuala Lipis, Merapoh and finally a pitstop at Gua Musang. Traffic was rather heavy as it was the beginning of the school holidays.

At 3.30am we departed Gua Musang for Tanah Merah to pick up Yoon Ming and finally arrived Kuala Besut at 7.15am. Had breakfast and then got on the 8.00am boat to the Perhentians. We arrived at around 8.45am and was sked by Birgit if we would like to join the 9.00am trip to Tokong Laut. Without checking into our room, we unpacked our dive gear and next we were enroute to Tokong Laut.

I felt a bit tired, my eyes were tired and the additional salt water made it very uncomfortable. Second dive was at Terumbu Tiga where Derrick and I bumped into a Napoleon Wrasse and also an Olive Ridley turtle. I slept underwater as the surge rocked me gently. After the dive, we had lunch and slept.

Got up just before sunset, took some photos. Then geared up fpr a night dive at Batu Nisan. My Princeton Tec Shockwave LED light worked superbly. After the dive, we had dinner, and Yoon Ming, Derrick and I had a chat until 3.30am.

Morning’s dive was at the Sugar Wreck…second best vis I’ve ever had there. Current was strong though. Did some penetration. The last dive was at D’ Lagoon.

As usual, a dive trip to Perhentian is always best.

More pictures can be seen here

I’ve Been Tagged – Weird

I’ve been tagged by blogger Neomesuff…and I was in the midst of packing to go diving tonight.

So how weird can I be? Let me count the ways:

ONE – I love to read and am always hungry for quick information. If I’m eating alone, I’ll need to read something..even if it means reading what’s on the paper mat on the MacDonald’s tray. Otherwise I wouldn’t be able to eat. Even when I’m taking a dump, I’ll need to read. I don’t smoke. It’s usually a newspaper or a magazine (yeah doctor says it’s bad and will give me piles). If I can’t find proper reading material, I’ll read anything on the bottle of shampoo or on the toothpaste tubes.

TWO – I get PMS. Yes, I’m a man. I get something like PMS if the period between dives go longer than 4 weeks. I get all cranky, moody, short-tempered. So if you want to be my wife, make sure you allow me to go diving when you see me all moody.

THREE – I talk to my plants more than I do with the wife.

FOUR – I’m a homely person…even homelier than my wife. I spend more quality time with my kids in a day than my wife does. I prefer staying home when not diving.

FIVE – I am allergic to a building called Uptown Two, which I think is somewhere in Damansara Uptown. In particular the seventh floor. I sneeze uncontrolably whenever I’m there.

SIX – I talk to myself sometimes, especially when I’m thinking of something important.

SEVENTH – I know I’m weird for responding to Neomesuff‘s tag. Now I have to tag others:

I’m tagging: Kimi, Mocha, Choy the AD Gunner, Icecool and Daddy In The City.

Never Asked

อาจเพราะว่าเธอไม่เคยถาม อาจเพราะว่าฉันไม่เคยรู้
เราสองคนที่เป็นอยู่ ก็เพียงแค่เพื่อนกัน
อาจเพราะว่าเธอไม่เรียกร้อง ไม่เคยต้องการไม่เคยใส่ใจฉันจึงคิดไป ว่าเธอไม่มีใจให้กัน
จนผ่านเวลามาเนิ่นนาน
เธอกลับมาทำให้ไหวหวั่น บอกกัน ว่ารักฉันหมดหัวใจ
ฉันเปลี่ยนไปแล้ว สายไป เธอควรเก็บใจไว้
ให้กับคนที่เขารอเธออยู่เสมอ
มันไม่ทันแล้ว ขอเธอ อย่าเสียเวลากลับไป กลับไปหาคนที่เขารอเมื่อเขารอเธออยู่ตรงนั้น และรักเพียงเธอตลอดมา
เลือกเขาจะดีกว่า อย่าเปลืองเวลากับฉันเลย
ให้เขาเป็นคนที่ได้รัก และเธอกับฉันก็เป็นอย่างเคยให้เราสองคน เป็นเพื่อนที่ดีต่อกันเรื่อยไปจนผ่านเวลามาเนิ่นนาน เธอกลับมาทำให้ไหวหวั่น บอกกัน ว่ารักฉันหมดหัวใจฉันเปลี่ยนไปแล้ว สายไป เธอควรเก็บใจไว้ให้กับคนที่เขารอเธออยู่เสมอมันไม่ทันแล้ว ขอเธอ อย่าเสียเวลากลับไป กลับไปหาคนที่เขารอจนผ่านเวลามาเนิ่นนาน เธอกลับมาทำให้ไหวหวั่น บอกกัน ว่ารักฉันหมดหัวใจฉันเปลี่ยนไปแล้ว สายไป เธอควรเก็บใจไว้ให้กับคนที่เขารอเธออยู่เสมอมันไม่ทันแล้ว ขอเธอ อย่าเสียเวลา
กลับไป กลับไปรักคนที่เขารอ

Perhentian 2007

Sunset at Perhentian

I am organising a trip to Perhentian..departing KL on the 29th March 2007, prices starting from RM480.00 for a 3D/2N full-board, plus 5 boat day-dives using own equipment.

I hope to go to Perhentian with the family before that, which means that I shall be off diving three weeks in a row.

Stupid MAT REMPITS

At around 2.20am today I was rudely awakened by the sound of motorcycles racing along this road to Sri Tanjung. I got up and saw a group of motoryclists “lepaking” by the corner, while a few were racing up and down the road. I was glad one actually tumbled and fell of his bike after a failed wheelie; if it weren’t for this one idiot, the race wouldn’t have stopped.

Maybe it’s time for the old “green peas on the road” trick again. Many will fall.

I’ve changed the title to MAT REMPIT from BIKERS because of my friend, Keith. 😛

Teach in Chinese Schools in Chinese

I must commend the Education Minister for finally realising that subjects taught in Chinese schools should be taught in Chinese (Mandarin perhaps). However, pupils from these schools should have the command of the Bahasa Malaysia.

Coming from the time when multiculturalism never existed in school, I truly hope that ALL students, regardless of race, be forced to learn ALL the major languages (Bahasa Malaysia, Mandarin and Tamil), and study in the SAME school, so that it would be easier for us all, especially those who will be inheriting this nation from us, to bring down the race barrier and think like how we (my generation) did.

I don’t understand this term multiculturalism. During my time, when we were doing our elementary education phase, I never thought of my other classmates like Wong Choon Wah, Michael Foo, Michael Leong, Chow Kah Sung as people of another race. We played together, ate together, stood on chairs together (punished)…we were friends, and we were one as Malaysians. As we grew up, those older than us poisoned us with these stupid “rights of each race” and “mother tongue” issues. From the increased race barriers come a generation that plaster the rear screen of their vehicles with stickers that say: “Die as a Muslim”, “Jesus Loves You”, “Sathya Sri Vaheguru”, “Amithaba” and so on. Then we become a nation filled with people who are not only race-conscious, but also apprehensive towards the religion of others.

It’s time to change back to the old ways.