Bonne Chance, Mes Amis!

I have two announcements to make.

Firstly, Major Yuen Yoon Ming a.k.a Mocha is now at the KLIA waiting for his flight to Melbourne. He will be away on a course until 8th December 2007. We hope that he will be able to find Internet connection as soon as he gets there. He has written about this course on his blog posting entitled All Set.

Mocha and I at the Gua Musang food court on our way to Perhentian

Secondly, Azlan a.k.a Ironore, is now in Jakarta awaiting deployment offshore in the Riau archipelago. He will be away for a month again and shall not be celebrating Hari Raya Aidil Fitri…much like me.

Ironore at KLIA

To these two brothers of mine, good luck, have fun, stay safe, and don’t forget to wear rubber. AHA!

Selamat Berbuka Puasa

Mosque in the setting sun

Melancholy has just set in.

The sun is setting.

I sit here staring at this screen wondering…

…when will I ever get to feel the joys of breaking fast

with a wife who would keep the ambience warm…

…feeding each other dates and sweets…

~sigh~

With this neck, head and shoulder ache, I often wonder if I will ever get to enjoy that feeling at all…

Boatman has just SMSed me from Perhentian:

SELAMAT BERBUKA PUASA, SD, AND GET WELL SOON.

Selamat Berbuka Puasa with your loved ones, people.

Enjoy the moment.

This Hari Raya

On the eve of Hari Raya in 2005, I was still at work. My daughters Farhanah and Fazira were already in Kedah to spend the holidays with their mother and (now, late) step-father. And last year, I hated Hari Raya.

So how is it going to be like this Hari Raya?

I will be alone. That’s for sure. Farhanah and Fazira will be in Kedah with their mother as she will be spending her first Hari Raya being a widow. Mohammad Amirul Farhan and Noorunnisaa will be spending hari raya with their mother. Maybe the eve of Hari Raya I shall go buy myself some lemang and rendang and VSOY soya drink. Stay home watch original imitation movies, or gatecrash other people’s open house for free meals.

I should do that for the first two days. On the third day I plan to remain incommunicado and disappear the whole day, totally out of touch with civilisation; and get one with nature.

I hope next Hari Raya would be more meaningful for me…in the twilight years of my life.

Sleep-Driving

Can't see straight when you are sleep driving

Out of 1,000 drivers, 7% have fell asleep at the wheel last year. 41% said they took caffeine to avoid feeling sleepy but only 30% of this said it was somewhat effective. More than 70% say they take regular breaks to avoid fatigue.

I used to do a lot of long-distance driving even before there were highways. I used to do daytrips to Redang, Perhentian and Tioman two years ago.

Of late, I am unable to. Especially after being on medication. Now I have to do breaks. There was once on the way back froma dive trip, I felt so sleepy that I think my car was on autopilot. I remember looking at the PETRONAS station at Genting Sempah and cannot recall how I got there and when did I do the climb up Bukit Tinggi. Then on my penultimate trip to Perhentian, I had to stop at the 7-11 near Gong Badak in Terengganu just to fight the sleepiness I felt. On the last trip I actually had to take a power nap for half an hour at Ru Sepuluh.

I think I will have to have enough sleep tonight before tomorrow’s journey to Redang.

I’ve Been Tagged Again

Tagged

I’ve been tagged yet again. This time it is by Blue-Fins (Person Formerly Known As Pink Fins). This time it is about bags!

5 Things In My Bag (I’ll take it as my pouch bag)

1. Swiss Army Knife
2. One-week’s medication
3. Opticrom Eye Ointment
4. Last weekend’s and the previous weekend’s marine park fees stubs
5. Coins

5 Things That Are In My Wallet

1. Money
2. Credit Cards
3. ATM card
4. My daughters’ photos
5. A&W Discount Card

5 Favourite Things In My Bedroom

1. This notebook
2. Magazines
3. Toilet
4. Bed
5. Sphygmomanometer

5 Things I Wish To Do

1. Go to the moon
2. Get this tag over and done with
3. Have the ability to fly
4. Get filthy rich
5. Marry the right woman

5 Things That I Am Doing Now

1. Typing this thing
2. Thinking of what to type
3. Yawning
4. Thinking of someone
5. Watching this screen

5 People I Would Like To Tag

1. Mocha
2. Icecool
3. Choy
4. Neomesuff
5. Jazzy

Now, can I sleep in peace?

Selamat Menyambut Kemerdekaan Ke-50

Tomorrow, Malaysia will celebrate its 50th independence anniversary.

Countloon prompted me to this recent independent survey commissioned by the New Straits Times, supported by the Friedrich Naumann Foundation, and was conducted by the Merdeka Centre for Opinion Research.

The telephone survey of about 1,200 Malaysians also found that the majority of the various races find comfort and security in their respective ethnicity and not in a common ‘Malaysian’ identity. The survey also found that negative racial stereotyping was deeply entrenched. For example, minority Chinese and Indians see the majority Malays, who make up 60 percent of the population of 25 million people, as lazy.

Chinese and Indians make up 26 percent and 8.0 percent of the population respectively.

It found that more than half the population does not trust each other. For a nation that claims to be a ‘melting pot’, only eleven percent of the respondents said they had eaten often with friends from other races in the past three months. Thirty four percent said they have never had a meal with people of other races.

The survey found that 42 percent do not consider themselves Malaysian first, 46 percent say ethnicity is important in voting, 55 percent blame politicians for racial problems and 70 percent would help their own ethnic group first.

According to the survey, 58 percent of Malays, 63 percent of Chinese and 43 percent of Indians polled agreed that ”in general, most Malays are lazy.”

Meanwhile, 71 percent of Malays, 60 percent of Chinese and 47 percent of Indians agree that ”in general, most Chinese are greedy.” Sixty-four percent of Malays, 58 percent of Chinese and 20 percent of Indians agreed that ”in general, most Indians cannot be trusted.”

Hari Raya Puasa was wrongly perceived as the Malay New Year by 32 per cent of Malays, 84 per cent of Chinese and 45 per cent of Indians –when the festival actually marks the culmination of Ramadan, the holy month of fasting.

Similarly, the Chinese New Year was thought to be a religious festival by 57 percent of Malays, 53 percent of Indians and a whopping 62 percent of Chinese respondents.

Despite the lack of unity, the country has enjoyed long periods of peace except for one race riot in 1969.

And unlike in some neighbouring countries where uniformity is enforced, Malaysia’s minorities are not restricted and are free to practice their own cultures and religions and enjoy a vernacular education.

So, where will we be 50 years from now?

Xmas Gifts Exchange 2004
Muhibbah? Hopefully always. Front bending: James. Center row: Angel, Lily, Poo Geok, Alvina, me, Alice, Savina, Poh Le, Moon Siew Back row: Andy Lim, Muaazam, Khor, Phang

Turning Kelantanese?

Really?

Well, no, not really. I still dislike the sticky sweet taste of the Jala Mas because I dislike sweet things unless it is naturally sweet. I don’t mind the nasi lemak with sweet sambal, as long as the sambal is hot. My first crush is a Kelantanese, well, maybe a mixture of Afghan, Thai and Kelantanese. Come to think of it, I was almost married off to a beautiful Thai young lady who is the youngest daughter of a village headman back in 1989, being a Leftenan Muda (Second Lieutenant) on a task in Southern Thailand with an army Captain near Tak Bai in Narathiwat. I couldn’t speak Thai then but those people spoke the Thai-Kelantanese dialect, which really is a rojak of Thai and Kelantanese words. I was even told by the father that I could return every quarter or so to have my wife-to-be’s “needs” be fulfilled. If it weren’t for the need to acquire permission from my Commanding Officer, I would have perhaps jumped at the chance. Anyway, for the one month that I was there, she introduced me to the kampung culture of South Thailand and I fell in love with things “Thai/Kelantanese” such as Dikir Barat. Wayang Kulit, however, has always been my object of curiosity and interest since I was little. Until today, Thai music, especially folk tunes like Loog Thoong, becomes my main musical interest.

No, I do not have Thai nor Kelantanese genes in my bloodstream. I am a full-blooded Nasution of the Mandailing tribe of North Sumatera. My compatriots include Ahmad Tarmimi of the Siregar marga (clan), Rubiah of the Lubis marga, and the infamous Datuk Mokhtar Hashim of the Harahap marga. My great-grandfather, Abdul Jabbar, or well-known as Ngah Jabor in the annals of Perak history, was jailed for 6 years for participating in the assassination of JWW Birch. But I know no words in Mandailing except “Horas.” I know more Thai and Kelantanese than my own mother-dialect.

Wayang Kulit Siam

My greatest love for things Kelantanese/Thai is the Wayang Kulit (shadow puppeteering). Not just any wayang kulit but Wayang Kulit Siam or Nang Thalung in Thai. I love it so much that I learnt how to perform, and also perform the accompanying musical instruments such as the canang, kesi and gong. I have yet to master the serunai. Even my sifu whom the United Nations has recognised as a Puppet Master wonders what is it about me that is Kelantanese if at all.

My ex-wife’s late husband (bless his kind soul) would converse with me in the Kelantanese-dialect and also used to wonder about my Kelantanese-ties. He even used to get me the best Budu for me to take home.

Budu fermenting in claypots

Actually Budu is the reason I write this posting today. Whenever I go diving, I’d ask Boatman to make sure Budu is available for me during all meals. I can live with just Budu mixed with some lime and cili padi, plain rice, omelette and ulam.

Aargh! I need to go back to Perhentian.

An Anniversary of Sorts

Cikgu Lily Abdullah underwater somewhere

I was reminded by Cikgu Lily (above) that a few days ago she turned one-year old as a scuba diver. That also means it has been a year since I met and knew her at Seahorse Dive Center.

I remember the time I was there, that was the best viz I’ve ever seen in Perhentian and my best dive ever at the Sugar Wreck. It was like diving into air.

Lily made it as an Advanced Open Water diver early this month. She now has 30 dives under her belt.

Congratulations Cikgu Lily, happy anniversary as a diver, and happy-our-anniversary. Hahaha!

Me at Sugar Wreck on the day of the best viz
Me at the hull of the Sugar Wreck between 22nd-24 August 2006

Congratulations Major Choy

Reference is made to Choy’s Blog entitled MAJORING MAJORITY

This blog officially declares Major Captain Corporal Choy as Major Choy.

He finally lost his three pips and invisible two-striped chevron on Monday 13th August 2007.

However, I was busy dating Mahal Ko and going diving so I didn’t realise. So Countloon will have to be the Duty Officer for the next seven (7) days in full celoreng for his failure to inform SeaDemon.

Congrats again, Choy. Go easy on the Chivas. The GRO I don’t mind.